Month: February 2026
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With A Little Help From My Friends: Perfectionism, Chronic Illness and the Struggle to Delegate
In my post, Good Enough: Striving for Excellence Not Perfection, I shared a story about folding towels. As I explained, my husband and I fold towels differently and I viewed his method as inferior to my ‘superior’ method. My solution was to take over the task of laundry completely for the last twenty years. Who…
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Watching the Wheels: Self-Perceived Burden and Toxic Productivity
Some of you may have caught a throwaway line in my last post, Toxic: Redefining Stresslaxing as Toxic Productivity. About halfway through I rather casually mentioned that having a chronic illness just exacerbated my stresslaxing tendencies. It has been my experience that many of my unhealthy tendencies, like toxic productivity, increased the sicker I got.…
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Toxic: Redefining Stresslaxing as Toxic Productivity
Funny how you can look back on something you wrote and not recognize the author. Over the Christmas break, I reread many of my past posts and was surprised that they came from me. I guess I’ve had some growth since I launched this little blog in 2022! But after a rather stressful week, the…